Ghost of my dead ex-boyfriend demands s8x from me - South African woman
“A few months before his death we had been living together in a one-roomed house. We had built the house with the money we made from piece jobs.” The woman now lives with another man in the house. “My lover is currently building on two more rooms.
“But this seems to have made my dead ex-boyfriend jealous, because I have not had peace since he began to build. He’s haunted me every night since February this year,” the woman said.
“He gives me hot slaps and even demands s_ex from me. He asks me about my new man and demands that I leave him.” The woman said she has left her house and now spends most of her time at her new man’s shack. “We have stopped building until I get a traditional healer to help me. I’ve been to sangomas but the muthi they give me to chase away his spirit doesn’t seem to work.”
Her new lover has promised to continue with the building as soon as they have found help. “He doesn’t klap her when she is with me. If he was still alive I would have talked to him man to man,” said the man. Sazi Mhlongo, president of the South African Traditional Healers Association, said the woman should seek help from an inyanga, not a sangoma.
“A strong inyanga will be able chase away the man’s spirit,” he said.